Since the hotel was
just around the corner by boat, our dive master picked us up every morning in
the boat, took us straight back to the hotel in the afternoon and we left all
our gear on the boat. It was great not
to have to wash gear every day and schlep it back and forth to the boat!! A girl could get spoiled!!
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Palau
Saturday, May 18, 2013
A Once in a Lifetime Trip
That is a once in a lifetime trip!!
What does this statement mean to you?

Is it a trip to a location
so remote, exotic, exciting and expensive that you only take one trip of that
type during your whole lifetime? OR
could it mean you go to that remote, exotic, exciting, expensive location only
once because there are so many other remote, exotic, exciting, expensive trips
to take?
Maybe it's not remote. Maybe it's not exotic to some people. Maybe it's not expensive at all. It only has to be a place you have dreamed about going.
Where do you want to
go on your once in a lifetime trip(s)?
Travel On
Monday, May 13, 2013
Yap – The Land of Stone Money
| Traditional Dress |
As we came out of
customs we were greeted by a lady dressed in a lava lava (traditional colorful grass
skirt) and something like a lei that is woven from thick strips of palm leaves
with small red flowers woven in. She was
topless but I did not realize that until later because the lei covered her very
well. She gave each of us a smaller
version of her lei as we came out of customs.
Just like most tropical airports
this one was completely open to the warm humid night air.
We were on Yap to
scuba dive which I have already written about but we also discovered a very
rich and traditional culture. Part of
the joy of travel is the research you do ahead of time but I have to admit I
did absolutely no research on Yap before this trip. In my mind, Yap was just a minor stop to see
the Manta Rays so I spent my time reading about Palau.
| Men's House |
I underestimated
Yap!! Populated well before the birth of
Christ by sailors from Indonesia and the Philippines the Yapese have always
been known for their great navigation skills.
When you live in a place that is less than .03% land and GPS has not
been invented yet, you better know how to navigate by reading the sea, clouds
and stars. While the modern world has
invaded Yap with mini-marts, cell phones and Wi-Fi many people still live a
very traditional life. The social
structure is a caste system with a strict social rank and each area is led by a
chief. The men never change their social
rank but women can change by marriage. They
still meet in community houses built out of palm leaves, coconut rope, tree
trunks, and bamboo with low eves to keep out the sun but open sides to allow
air flow. They are very cool inside on a
hot day. Built the same, but a bit
smaller is the “men’s house” where men hold meetings and just gather to get
away. Much like a man cave today, only
no electricity for the big screen TV.
| Stone Money Bank |
Their
financial system historically consisted of various sizes of stone money that
was carved from Palau and brought back to the island. Even today local people still own stone money
and use it to buy land and homes. When
you think of stone money, you think of small coin size pieces carved from
stone, right? Well no, their stone money
ranges from small sizes like that to very large round stones taller than a man
with a hole in the middle. We visited a
stone money “bank.” It was a path lined
with all sizes of round wheel-like stones each with a hole in the middle used
to carry them back to the island. The
money never moves but does change ownership.
Its value comes in the history of the stone and how it was carved. A small stone, carved by hand with a giant clam
shell and brought over long ago on a wooden canoe is more valuable than a much
larger stone carved with more modern metal tools and brought over on a large
ship. When the stone changes hands the
current owner must pass down the history of the stone to the new owner. A long rich history adds value to the
stone.
| Betel Nut and Pepper Leaf |
Something very unique
to Yap and almost nowhere else is the chewing of Betel Nut. This is an addiction that is much like
smoking, chewing tobacco or habitual coffee drinking here in the states. I don’t remember meeting one Yapese adult
that did not chew Betel Nut. The Betel
Nut grows on a palm like tree; they pick a green nut, crack it in half, put
lime inside (not the fruit, but ground up limestone) and wrap the whole thing
in a pepper leaf. Put it in the back of the
mouth and slowly chew, spitting out the extra juice. Doing this causes the juices to become a
bright red color and if you did not know any better you might think a chewer
was bleeding in the mouth. The red color
stains the teeth and anything else it is spat upon. In many stores there are no spitting signs
and there are spitting cans outside to keep it from staining the sidewalk. Our tour guide extraordinaire, Theo, sat us
down in the men’s house, showed us the process and let us try it. I tried it
and it gave me a small head rush like a first cigarette but I did not chew too
long. Your dentist would not be very
happy with you if you chewed Betel Nut on a regular basis, it is not easy on
the teeth.
| WWII Wreck |
Yap did not become
entangled in WWII until late, April 1944, when the Japanese build a runway so
the Americans started bombing it. I
asked what the local people did during that time and was told some left to live
with family in other areas and some stayed trying to avoid the dangerous
action. In that short time it saw its
share of WWII action and there are still many war relics scattered over the
island and in the surrounding sea. There
are still 120 American men listed as MIA on Yap. You might ask, why, how is that
possible? I did. But with the depth of the sea, the steep
ocean shelf and the extremely dense jungle, it is very possible. There are planes that went down over Yap that
have never been found and one that was discovered as recently as 2006.
I have a lot of
respect for the Yap people they seem to have done a great job at adopting the
modern conveniences of life without losing their rich heritage. Yap is
a place I would like to return to; for great diving and to experience more of
the daily life of the local people!
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Diving Yap
The diving in Yap is known mostly for the Manta Ray cleaning stations and the Mandarin Fish dive. Since Yap is located pretty much in the middle of nowhere Pacific Ocean it is the perfect place to see larger pelagic ocean species who are attracted to the 24 hour buffet of the coral reef. Manta Rays come here for a quick spa treatment courtesy of various cleaner wrasses before they hit the singles bar to find love. This provides divers with an almost guaranteed sighting of these huge, majestic, elegant creatures who seem to effortlessly fly though the water.
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| Photo by Mindy Coplin |
Pretty soon a much larger Mandarin Fish struts
by and beckons the little lady out to mate.
They meet belly to belly and in a flash they dart up a foot or so
release sperm and egg and in an instant they are apart and she goes back to
foraging along the coral and he struts off to find the next female. In Yap this is a special dive that you pay
extra for so we were amused to find the same fish living among the trash and
anemic coral along cement wall in the boat basin of Sam’s Tours in Palau.
Since Yap is located
hundreds of miles from anywhere they also have wonderful walls just outside the
barrier reef that drop into the abyss and are covered with every kind of life
you can think of. On one side is a
vertical wall covered with sea life while on the other side and below is
nothing but deep blue sea!! Keep an eye
out on the deep blue every now and then because you just never know who will
silently swim by while you are too busy looking at a ¼ inch nudibranch.
Saturday, March 16, 2013
A Female Nomad
Searching for something new to read on my Nook, I came
across a book called “Tales of a Female Nomad: Living at Large in the World” by
Rita Golden Gelman so I downloaded it immediately. It is
about a woman who has what seems like a dream life with fancy Hollywood husband
whose job opens up many high class opportunities to rub elbows with celebrities
and invitation to all the best parties.
Almost out of the blue she faces a divorce at 48 and decides to do
something totally out of her box. She
heads to Mexico and that is just the start of an adventure of full time travel
for many years. Many people claimed she was running away but
she thinks, and I agree, she was running toward life; a life full of
experiences.
The title caught my attention because that is what I think I
would like to do; travel full-time roaming from place to place, going somewhere
that I find interesting, seeing the country and getting to know the culture,
meeting some of the people and living within that culture for a time. Then when I feel like moving on, I do, I go
to the next interesting place. I stay as
long or as short as I like. I have
thought of this often but then reality comes into my brain and says, “How do
you pay for this?” I hate reality! I would not be able to work in these places
so should I quit work here in the US, use my savings for a few years and risk
having to be a Wal-Mart greeter at 55? Who
knows if I will even live to be 55 so why not go now?? It seems like people who are able to make
full-time travel a reality are mostly authors or artists; they sell a book or
two, some photographs or paintings and can travel for a few years. That is the case with Rita, she has an
established reputation as a children’s book author. With her foot firmly in the door of the
publishing world she had the freedom to roam and still make a living. This is not possible for a real estate
agent. I can’t sell homes in hundreds of
different locations, in markets I know nothing about, in countries I am not
licensed to work. And my local Whidbey
Island clients would not care to hire an agent who is off gallivanting around
the world, silly clients; they expect something like great service, someone
here to actually find them a house or sell the one they have. So that limits the income potential on the
road. Since you read this blog, you know
good and well I do NOT have my foot in the publishing world and most likely
won’t without a miracle. Although I come
from a background of some talented painters, my mom and granny have produced
some really good art work; I did not inherit that talent. Photography might be my only hope. I think I have a pretty good eye and can take
some really good photos now and then.
Would you like to buy some?
Traveling full time does not have to be expensive. I don’t need to live at the Hilton but I am
too old to live in a dorm room with a bunch of loud, drunk, smelly 20 year
olds. There are a lot of places in the
world where I can live for a few hundred dollars a month as long as I live like
a local, I wouldn’t want to live like an American anyway, I can do that in
America. If I am going to spend time in
Chile or Argentina or Thailand then I want to experience the place and
lifestyle not try to reproduce my American lifestyle. There are limits; I don’t have any desire to
live in a mud hut on the Serengeti with the Maasi without electricity. I would, however, be thrilled to live in a
small wooden house in Belize with at least a swamp cooler for the bedroom at
night. In the book, Rita had a knack for
meeting people and becoming a part of their lives. That is an important skill I would have to
work on. It takes me a long time to
really be comfortable around people I don’t know. Living and spending time with a local family
really added to the fullness of her experience.
It allowed her to experience more than just the tourist version of a
country. She got to know the real
culture and experience the local foods, customs, holidays and family life. It helped that she spent most of her time in
developing countries; Mexico, Indonesia, Guatemala, Thailand. Those
places are much more affordable than the developed world of Iceland or
Italy.
Courage! It just
takes courage! Rita had a push, a
divorce she did not ask for, but she had the courage to follow her desire. Do I have the courage? I travel more than most people but do I have
what it takes to make the leap? I might
have to start slowly by spending 3 or 4 months someplace and see how that
goes. My friend Dawn taught me that no
decision is permanent! No matter what I
do, I can always come back home and sell real estate on beautiful, although
cloudy, Whidbey Island. I'll keep you posted....
Monday, February 18, 2013
Hotel Hell
This is a story of anything that can go wrong will go
wrong. All names have been kept
authentic in order to convict the guilty, but keep in mind this happened back
in 2006 so it’s possible this hotel may not be in business or it may not even be
owned by the same person today. It could
be the greatest place to stay today, I have no idea, but this was my exact
experience.
I arrived in Athens about 7 PM from Paros and my US flight
did not leave until the next morning. I
booked a room on the out skirt of Athens on line well before I arrived and arranged
transportation to and from the airport.
Upon my arrival in Athens, Theo from Peri’s Hotel was not at the pre-arranged
meeting place where I exited baggage claim.
I waited a bit then asked the information desk to call but she pointed
me to a pay phone. In Greece back then
you could not just pop a coin into the phone to make a call, you had to buy a
phone card and the smallest denomination card was 4 Euro. I called, Theo answered, told him who I was
and he impatiently said, “I am waiting, where are you?” “I am at the phone by the information
desk.” “Oh, I see you.” And he walks toward me with no sign in his
hand, how was I supposed to find him with no sign? He had no idea what I looked like. Well that was an expensive phone call; in
hind sight I should have made him credit me for that call. He tells me to wait here and he walks toward
the info desk and comes back with a pretty and petite French lady. On the 15 minute drive to the hotel he and
the lady chit-chat and laugh all in French as if I was not in the car. At the hotel he carries her bags in and
checks her in quickly. I get my bags up
the stairs to the lobby and wait while he takes her to her room. When he comes to check me in I give him my
Visa and he looks at me as if I am an idiot, “I don’t take cards.” It would have been nice to know that up
front, most people leaving the country are trying to leave with as little local
cash as possible so I did not have enough to pay. He said I could go to the cash machine in the
morning. Sure, whatever! I was starving so I asked about the taverna
that is advertised to be only 3 blocks away, it closed for the season
yesterday, but there is a nice place near the beach that will pick me up and
bring me back, fine. Without asking if I
minded, he calls the French lady and asks if she wants to join me. UGH!!
I don’t really want to eat dinner with a stranger that I can barely talk
to. A quiet dinner, a book and bed was
more my plan. She comes along, is happy
and friendly, and insists we share a plate of fish. Not really high on my list but I just want to
eat and go back. We have a nice dinner,
the fish was good, lots of bones, but the salad and tatzeki was great. I learned that she is also in real estate, we
talked a lot, her English was good but the accent was thick so I really had to
listen closely. She kept ordering wine
which was tasty but I was so tired.
Finally the waiter brought the check and told us that the van lady who
brought us had gone home and he would take us back when his shift was over in
30 minutes. It is now 11:30 and we got
into his old, dirty, beat up hatchback with black and red vinyl seats. This was creepy!! He talked to the French lady in Greek and she
seemed to understand. He clearly did not
know where he was going; he turned around again and again. Finally she convinced him to call someone, he
calls, he talks, he drives, he turns around, he drives more, he turns around,
and he calls again. This happens three
times! Then he asks me, in English, for
the hotel phone, who was he talking to before??? I give him the hotel card that I thankfully
picked up at the front desk. He calls,
he talks, he drives, he turns around, and it is after midnight and I have to
pee so badly!! I just might pee in his
car if he does not find this place, too bad I could not say that in Greek. As we were driving I saw a mini-mart that we
had passed on the way there so I knew we were in the right area. After two more
calls to unidentified people I saw the hotel about two blocks away across an
open field. I pointed and said there,
THERE! The roads did not go through so
it was not clear how to get there without driving over the field. I should have just gotten out and walked
across the field. At this point he made
one more phone call and finally found an unmarked dirt road that took us to the
hotel.
This place is located in what looked to me like a rundown
neighborhood with many vacant lots surrounding it. It is built to look like a large house, not a
hotel, and there are no signs on the building at all. I am guessing it does not meet zoning, if
they have such a thing in Greece. The key
was in the door so we walked in and the French lady shut the door while I
sprinted to my room that was the first room on the first floor, just next to
the reception desk. It was now 12:30, so
much for a short quiet dinner. It was
really hot in the room so I opened the sliding door and partially closed the
roll shutters so I would get some air but it was not completely open. I fell asleep right away and what seemed like
seconds later I heard a loud knock. I
could not tell if it was at my door or down the hall, either way I was not
going to answer so I ignored it. The
knocking continues and then a man’s voice said, “Madam, I am the proprietor,
please open.” At this point I realized
he was on my balcony knocking on my roll shutters. I answered, “NO! GO AWAY!” “Please open the front door, someone has
locked it.” After a moment he said it
again. I told him to go around to the
front and I would open it, I heard him leave so I went out to the lobby in my
pajamas and opened the door. There was a
man and woman with luggage waiting on the steps. The key that had been on the outside when I
returned was now on the inside. The
people on the steps said thank you as I went back to my room, it was 1:30 AM. I tried to sleep, but tossed and turned all
night. About 4 am people started
stirring in their rooms and in the lobby.
I heard every movement, every toilet flush, every shower, and every hair
dryer. People in the lobby were speaking
loudly right outside my door. I was so
annoyed!! Finally the lady with
breakfast came to the door, she brought coffee, bread, cake, a slice of cheese
and juice that looked and tasted like colored water.
When I went out front to catch the van to the airport, Theo
approached me and began to complain about who ever moved the key and he sounded
like he was accusing me of doing it.
That was the straw that sent me over the edge!!
“I did not touch
your key!”
“I did not say you
did.”
“Some man banged
on my patio door at 1:30 in the morning”
“They had to, they
had to get inside.”
“I did not know
who it was and the man on the patio knew I was a woman in there by myself, it
scared me.”
“He had to and
since you did not answer he had to go to another balcony.”
“I DID ANSWER, I
opened the front door in my pajamas, you should be thanking me not yelling at
me, what if your wife was alone in New York City and some strange man asked her
to open her patio door and let him in.”
“Madam,” he said
very condescendingly, “this is Athens, not New York City, Athens basically has
no crime.”
He did not care one iota and proceeded to tell me how worried he was
when he received a call at 1:30 AM.
WHAT??? He was worried by a phone call?
And he could care less that his client was scared out of bed in the
middle of the night. I could not leave
it alone.
Again I forcefully said, “I am
the one who opened the door, you should be thanking me!!!” Pause…
“You opened the door?”
“Yes.”
“Oh I thank you 10 times, not once, I thank you, I am sorry for the trouble
but what else were they to do, someone moved the key and put it inside so no
one could put a key into the outside.”
Then he proceeded to rant about whoever moved the key. UGH, please just get me to the airport!! I have to admit that I thought about taking my bags and leaving him at the airport without paying. I did not do that, like a the good girl my mother raised, I went to the ATM and brought him 60 Euro. However I did not say thank you and neither did he.
I would have much rather stayed at the Airport Sofitel and paid 200
Euro for a comfortable bed, quiet room, restaurant on site and no patio with
some strange man banging on my roll shutters instead of paying 60 Euros (plus a
4 Euro phone call) for a hard bed, loud complex, no dinner without a painful
transfer, mediocre breakfast, rude owner and a stranger on my balcony.
Friday, February 8, 2013
Santorini Greece
It was really warm outside so we left our shutters open, not
a good idea, the mosquitos used us as their dinner. I tossed and turned most of the night and
right at sunrise I looked out the window to see a beautiful pinkish/reddish foggy
layer over the sea just before the sun came up.
I rolled over, covered up and tried to go back to sleep, just to be
startled by some very loud and very long sounding bells from the church not too
far away. Even though I was crabby
because they interrupted my last bit of sleep it was hard to stay crabby
because they had such a joyful sound. I
am guessing this was an alert to notify worshipers it was time for church.
KAREN’S SANTORINI TIPS:
ü
Put Santorini on your top 10 must see places.
ü
Stay in Oia if at all possible, it will be
extremely expensive but worth the experience.
ü
Stay at least 4 full days if you can: 1. Fira,
2. Oia, 3. Volcano Tour, 4. Akrotiri Archeology Site and some diving, if
possible. You might be able to do this
in three days.
ü
Avoid the rental car, busses are organized,
cheap and drivers are CRAZY.
ü
Experience the steps down to the water in Fira
or Oia. Fira has donkeys and cable car
while Oia is walking only.
ü
Wear comfortable thick soled shoes with good
traction, the pathways are old lava stone that is very polished from all the
years of foot traffic and it is very uneven.
ü
Take a wrap or light jacket, the evenings are
chilly
ü
SUNSET – position yourself early, relax and
experience every slight change in color of the sky and the way it lights the
town.
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