Saturday, March 16, 2013

A Female Nomad

Searching for something new to read on my Nook, I came across a book called “Tales of a Female Nomad: Living at Large in the World” by Rita Golden Gelman so I downloaded it immediately.   It is about a woman who has what seems like a dream life with fancy Hollywood husband whose job opens up many high class opportunities to rub elbows with celebrities and invitation to all the best parties.  Almost out of the blue she faces a divorce at 48 and decides to do something totally out of her box.  She heads to Mexico and that is just the start of an adventure of full time travel for many years.   Many people claimed she was running away but she thinks, and I agree, she was running toward life; a life full of experiences.

The title caught my attention because that is what I think I would like to do; travel full-time roaming from place to place, going somewhere that I find interesting, seeing the country and getting to know the culture, meeting some of the people and living within that culture for a time.  Then when I feel like moving on, I do, I go to the next interesting place.  I stay as long or as short as I like.  I have thought of this often but then reality comes into my brain and says, “How do you pay for this?”  I hate reality!  I would not be able to work in these places so should I quit work here in the US, use my savings for a few years and risk having to be a Wal-Mart greeter at 55?  Who knows if I will even live to be 55 so why not go now??  It seems like people who are able to make full-time travel a reality are mostly authors or artists; they sell a book or two, some photographs or paintings and can travel for a few years.  That is the case with Rita, she has an established reputation as a children’s book author.  With her foot firmly in the door of the publishing world she had the freedom to roam and still make a living.  This is not possible for a real estate agent.  I can’t sell homes in hundreds of different locations, in markets I know nothing about, in countries I am not licensed to work.  And my local Whidbey Island clients would not care to hire an agent who is off gallivanting around the world, silly clients; they expect something like great service, someone here to actually find them a house or sell the one they have.  So that limits the income potential on the road.  Since you read this blog, you know good and well I do NOT have my foot in the publishing world and most likely won’t without a miracle.  Although I come from a background of some talented painters, my mom and granny have produced some really good art work; I did not inherit that talent.  Photography might be my only hope.  I think I have a pretty good eye and can take some really good photos now and then.  Would you like to buy some?
Traveling full time does not have to be expensive.  I don’t need to live at the Hilton but I am too old to live in a dorm room with a bunch of loud, drunk, smelly 20 year olds.  There are a lot of places in the world where I can live for a few hundred dollars a month as long as I live like a local, I wouldn’t want to live like an American anyway, I can do that in America.  If I am going to spend time in Chile or Argentina or Thailand then I want to experience the place and lifestyle not try to reproduce my American lifestyle.  There are limits; I don’t have any desire to live in a mud hut on the Serengeti with the Maasi without electricity.  I would, however, be thrilled to live in a small wooden house in Belize with at least a swamp cooler for the bedroom at night.  In the book, Rita had a knack for meeting people and becoming a part of their lives.  That is an important skill I would have to work on.  It takes me a long time to really be comfortable around people I don’t know.  Living and spending time with a local family really added to the fullness of her experience.  It allowed her to experience more than just the tourist version of a country.  She got to know the real culture and experience the local foods, customs, holidays and family life.  It helped that she spent most of her time in developing countries; Mexico, Indonesia, Guatemala, Thailand.   Those places are much more affordable than the developed world of Iceland or Italy. 
Courage!  It just takes courage!  Rita had a push, a divorce she did not ask for, but she had the courage to follow her desire.  Do I have the courage?  I travel more than most people but do I have what it takes to make the leap?  I might have to start slowly by spending 3 or 4 months someplace and see how that goes.  My friend Dawn taught me that no decision is permanent!  No matter what I do, I can always come back home and sell real estate on beautiful, although cloudy, Whidbey Island.  I'll keep you posted....